How do you stay sexy..



date Tue, Jan 12, 2010 at 10:30 PM
subject [xbp84] How do you stay sexy....



UYC wrote:
I am getting fatter. Yes, I do try to lose weight but its harder & harder coz I am getting old (mmmphh). Anyway, staying lean is relevant to me.Tapi, a friend of mine (lelaki) yang dah anak enam cakap dia tak kisah his wife yang bigger than me being big coz he said " you must look your age". That is sexy enough for him. I bet he is happy and satisfied with what he already have.

So, how do stay sexy (please have your own definition of this word) for him or for her?

uya yang cantik



boonchert wrote:

the key is try to understand your man need.. susah nak buat especially those working housewife.. jgn buang masa provide benda yg dia tak perlu.. kata kawan aku, org lelaki nih kelemahan dia dua jer, atas pusat dan bawah pusat.. kalo dua2 tuh kenyang, dia jadi macam kucing.. kucing kalo kenyang ko golek ikan depan hidung dia pun dia buat tak tau.. kata kawan aku laa..

bout the fat, aku rasa laa.. untuk org yg visual type.. aku rasa cuba nak kurus nih misconception of being sexy.. takyah lose weight, but do body toning, the shape not the size.. lain kalo lelaki, the size not the shape.. tuh doktor kawan aku cakap.. doktor homeophaty jual ubat nama dinosaur.. hehe.. ada yg dah try? ;)



lynne wrote:

SEXY???? The most subjective subject of all time. For me , well groomed , fit, propotionately distibuted , muscular, perky, pointy, look good in whatever I wear, fit into many clothes that hang on the rack at the supermarket will fall into the category sexy.(very high standard that I myself never achieved...) Some scantily clad can look sexy yet others may cover top to bottom still look slutty..
My list of sexy , not sexy, and slutty...(u guys can eeewwwweeeeee.... if u want)

Sexy : Farah Khan, Queen Rania, Benazir Bhutto, Carla Bruni, Bon Jovi, Rahim Maarof, Badrul Muahayat, Faizal Tahir, Shelia Majid - now, Maya Karin, Sarimah Ibrahim, Jalaluddin Hassan (ewwweee???), Ramli MS
Not Sexy - Sheila Majid- then, Umie Aida, Scha Alyahya, Rita Rudani ,Adlin Ramli
Slutty - Brittany Spears, Ifa Raziah, dan banyak lagi...malas nak tulis...

Uya - to me, sexy is how you feel, look and carry yourself.....( and how much your spouse is turned on by you.) For most of us, may be being the right weight (not necessarily thin), and nicely groomed (anggun dan bergaya) will fit into the category of sexy . No point being thin but weak, pale, unruly and unkempt. (contoh Mary-Kate Ashley)..sumpah tak sexy--- tu contoh2 omputih yang aku ingat lah...artis2 melayu ramai dah tak kenal yang baru2 ni...

Tomoque da Vogue
Anggun dan Bergaya (susah sikit nak maintain sejak anak pi sekolah ni)



Hhabib wrote:

Mmm... Kalo tak sexy, how to stay sexy?

Aku rasa lebih tepat kalo soklannya "how to stay attractive?"

Pada Aku no. 1 kebersihan, nampak Seksi tapi tiak acem, kan hilang
selera Cik abang.



halimi wrote:

My wife cakap exactly the same as Pak Mujib cakap...."you ni, senang je nak jaga, kasi kenyang perut dan kenyang yg kat bawah tu....setel". Haha. Unfortunately for me it's true, haha.



UYC wrote:

what about bagi kenyang but kekadang buat bodo, jual mahal, main tarik tali, playing the game etc..

Theres another question, JALI JAWAB sekali ya, how do you stay connected and have colors and variety in the relationship?



jali wrote:

ok, how to stay connected and colourful? five words. Ray Free Jar Ray Tor.



boonchert wrote:

hehe.. sound to me not kenyang enuff.. ;)
have u ever heard the term "pancut tapi tak puas"?
(pls mind my language, for education purpose only.. jgn buat kerepek)



UYC wrote:

mmm...but again, we evolve (men & women) at different ages?



boonchert wrote:

err.. not really bout sexual stamina..

for education purpose only.. kalo ada yg rasa tak selesa bagitau.. sex nih topik taboo dlm org melayu.. ada sebab org tua2 tanak citer sebab byk rahsia.. takut org muda2 salah guna.. paling kuat pun dia pesan jaga laki ko baik2, tapi tak bagitau pun camna nak jaga..

ada satu kawan pompuan aku citer psal lelaki n sex.. obviously sama ada kita nak avoid atau tidak, man n sex nih macam err.. kapur dgn sirih or laut dgn pantai (boleh camnih? ;)) dia yg bagitau aku camna nak kenal lelaki melalui sexual intercourse.. dia selalu quote, isteri patutnya yg paling kenal laki dia.. unless isteri-isteri buat tak kisah psal sexual intercourse dgn laki dia.. kelemahan, kekuatan, imaginasi, kreativiti, and basically on how a man living his life interpreted in his sexual behaviour.. i'm not sure how to elaborate this since i never have sex with man ;) but i use it to understand myself.. healthy man will have healthy sex life.. when he can control his sexual desire, he can control his life.. woman that can control her man sexual desire can shape his life.. that was what she concluded..

dia bagi tips, sama cam aku jumpa dlm satu kitab lama, nafsu nih kita takleh buang.. manusia tanpa nafsu tak hidup, sebab tuh Tuhan bagi nafsu.. so ada masa kena layan nafsu nih, tapi jgn sampai habis (bukan maksud aku berenti setengah :P).. simpan sket utk surprise lain kali.. so nafsu nih akan sentiasa teruja.. keep coming back.. ini key dia.. make him keep coming back.. kalo nafsu nih puas melampau2, next time dia mintak lagi banyak tak larat melayan, or end up dia dah tak teruja and switch target.. macam memancing, ada time kena biar, ada time kena tarik, ada time kena sentap.. tapi kalo biar lama2 ikan terlepas.. kalo tarik cepat2 pun boleh jadi lepas.. kena bagi cukup2, tak lebih tak kurang.. how? pay intention on bed..

bunyi macam dlm kepala lelaki nih takder benda selain sex kan? its only part of it.. remember the quote, "Man's greatest motivating force is his desire to please woman" ..

so how to stay sexy? u have to feel sexy before u can make other people agree with it.. start by being fully naked infront of the big mirror and appreciate yurself.. tapi kalo tak boleh feel, get help.. baannyaakk equipment leh tolong org pompuan, berbanding lelaki yg balik2 kena lari keliling kampung, naik beskal bodo, angkat besi.. eisshh.. wish i can have firm muscle by being lazy.. duh



KSS wrote:

oklah, aku share something aku terbaca hari tu bab ni. aku hanya recall saja no... (terbaca ha.. nicky, dengar tu, terbaca... bukan saja2 baca hehe!)

what men wants, what women wants change with age... betul tu mcm kata kak Uya.

article tu kata, men sexual desire peaks at early 20s, women peak at early 30s. setiap orang berbeza, so ada yg lambat baru peak or earlier... ada yg last for ages...

masa kita 20s, married couple baru experience it, so depa honeymoon selalu... enjoy the moments la katakan.. Career baru start, anak2 baru start nak mai. They enjoyed everything. dan sama2 belajar... yg kurang sana sini, masing2 bertolak ansur.

kata article tu lagi, bila masuk 30s, anak2 dah ramai, membesar, career pun tengah naik, semua orang busy... walaupun women peaks at early 30s, tapi busy punya pasai, anak2 kecik kacau etc, either they choose to ignore sex or they simply try to adapt their best to the situation... body pun tak dan nak jaga etc... ya la, nak pi spa ka, exercise semua x sempat.. yg men pulak, pun sama lah.. cuma since dah peak masa 20s, masuk 30s tu, depa slow down sikit... (betul ka, aku tak tau, kena check penulis article tu la).. lagi pun waktu ni, their career pun tengah dok naik...

then, masuk 40s... ni when the new world begins... article tu kata la (bukan aku). Men punya 'tanduk' mai balik, but this time, not only the desires but also mula suka dimanja... the level of manja tu increases with age after 40s.. kalau wife waktu tu sebok dgn MLM, career, meeting Wanita sana-sini, mula la men rasa 'kekosongan'.... kena pulak waktu tu, income dah stable (atau dah berlebihan), anak2 dah besar, so men start cari lain yg boleh mengisi kekosongan tadi ... article tu kata, orang tak perasan perubahan to men waktu ni... manja tu lebih sikit... depa pulak ganti anak2... anak2 dah besar, tak manja dah.. .bapa budak pulak jadi anak budak hehe.... aku dah lupa dah article tu kata apa pasal women at this age.... tak silap, when gets to late 40s then 50s.. orang pompuan start emosional sebab dah start menopause...
men pulak... never stops... bak kata macam buah kelapa, lagi tua lagi lemak

yg lain2 aku tak ingat dah article tu...



UYC wrote:

its always challenging. nak mai manja pulak laa....bila kita nak bagi manja, tak dan nak manja, bila kita cemuih dah nak manja, nak mai manja. larat la nak melayan....kuang!kuang!kuang!



Hhabib wrote:

tu la tu... last last laki bini buat perangai... tu yg berantakan tu...
(at least kita kat sini ingat mengingati kan Om)



boonchert wrote:

aku penah tak setuju dgn statement 40 nih but then aku terpaksa setuju sebab bila lately aku sembang2 dgn org umah aku psal benda2 camnih dia kata, "mmg betul.. papa skrg nih mengada2 lebih.." errkk..

kata kawan aku pulak, masa 30 mmg slow sket, masuk 40 mmg camtuh.. (i've been thinking yg 30 dah hebat masuk 40.. pergh), masuk mid 50 slow balik.. sebab dia dah lepas age tuh dan dah rasa semua.. so i guess, "guys ada bonus 15 tahun lagi!".. hehe..



KSS wrote:

mcm tu tak apa Jib... yg syoknya... yg selama ni tak mengada... tiba2 lepas baca ni jadi mengada2... yg dah mengada.. jedi lebih mengada2.... sebab kalu tak mengada nanti depa kata "awat hubby aku ni tak mcm orang lain... x mengada dgn aku. samada dia tak normal, atau dia dok mengada dgn orang lain".... jeng.. jeng... jeng...!


btw, ada kawan kat ofis, dah 50s.... dia selalu dok komplen... suami dia kalahkan kanak2... so, she call him baby... husband dah pencen... anak tak ada... bila husband tak kerja... breakfast kena teman suami, then pi ofis, lunch pun kena balik pi makan kedai dgn suami.... dinner dll lagi lah.... bila dia travel pi China ka etc, kejap2 kena sms... last2, dia suruh suami dia cari kerja lain.... keep him busy..



lynne wrote:

I think the income and time have more to do than age. Kalau early dah achieve "comfortable" tu, may be lagi rancak kut at earlier age. True mostly at 40s may income dah stable, masa pun banyak sebab anak2 dah makin besar, bini pun dah malas nak ikut pi HRC or pi party sana sini...so lagi banyak chance nak keluar bersosial bersama kawan2. Bab manja tu....dari pengalaman aku sendiri...I do feel lagi banyak demand makin2 berumur ni...lagi banyak kena bagi attention kat laki...bagi je lah... tak luak pun...tak tau lah how you guys feel...



Hhabib wrote:

Ya Rob!!! Gumbiranya Om!!!



boonchert wrote:

hahahaa.. seronok kisah umahtangga nih.. macam2 hal.. sapa yg tak kawin lagi tuh baik kawin cepat.. hehe


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